tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2252285009517721143.post2300799088603989368..comments2023-06-18T06:35:42.729-04:00Comments on Christian Writer/Reader Connection: Virtual Reality Versus Real LifeSusan J. Reinhardthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07461276857852409546noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2252285009517721143.post-54736129486970459432013-06-11T08:27:02.272-04:002013-06-11T08:27:02.272-04:00Hi Janette -
I like the idea of social media as a...Hi Janette -<br /><br />I like the idea of social media as a middleman. Quite a few of my connections have "bumped up" to blogging, email, phone, and occasionally personal meetings.<br /><br />Blessings,<br />Susan :)<br />Susan J. Reinhardthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07461276857852409546noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2252285009517721143.post-91012109128078297432013-06-11T00:24:59.575-04:002013-06-11T00:24:59.575-04:00Timely question. Yes, I think virtual realities ar...Timely question. Yes, I think virtual realities are a problem. Not only do people get caught up in them, but people are much more brazen to each other on social media sites than they'd ever be in person. I know of friendships that have ended over ridiculous Facebook posts that took on a life of their own. <br /><br />As I get to know people better over social media sites, I "bump up" our friendships by following people's blogs, emailing people personally, chatting on the phone, or meeting up in person. <br /><br />I think virtual reality is a good "middleman" when you're looking to meet like-minded people, but the human beings on either end of the "middleman" machine need to know when to make him bow out.<br /><br />Be well, my friend...JDhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05234966786590125696noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2252285009517721143.post-67895712009875144352013-06-04T20:06:36.716-04:002013-06-04T20:06:36.716-04:00Hi Linda - You know, I've come across kids who...Hi Linda - You know, I've come across kids who seem downright unsociable. It's interesting that you connected this trait with virtual reality. I never thought of that angle.<br /><br />Hi Quiet Spirit - I'm gradually coming into balance. Because of contractual obligations, I HAVE to make time to write. Prioritizing is no longer optional.<br /><br />Hi Jen - All good points. I'm glad we got to meet face to face. A real hug definitely beats a cyber hug (even though they're nice).<br /><br />Blessings,<br />Susan :)Susan J. Reinhardthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07461276857852409546noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2252285009517721143.post-42579027761871480612013-06-04T12:12:39.191-04:002013-06-04T12:12:39.191-04:00OH, yes, I do think we tend to substitute virtual ...OH, yes, I do think we tend to substitute virtual relationships for real ones, because they are safer. We can pretend to be whomever we want the other person to think we are, rather than the flawed person we truly are. Face-to-face is risky. But it's more rewarding. <br /><br />I can't hug you online if you're upset. Jeanette Levelliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12898750484193832082noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2252285009517721143.post-24561456010384410952013-06-04T12:06:11.386-04:002013-06-04T12:06:11.386-04:00 I have concerns about the virtual world. I have t... I have concerns about the virtual world. I have to learn balance my time. I have some activities at church and go places. But I always feel torn about these things.quietspirithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06086016141181470311noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2252285009517721143.post-6579847627184189842013-06-04T07:05:28.014-04:002013-06-04T07:05:28.014-04:00I see it with all ages and I do believe it is a co...I see it with all ages and I do believe it is a concern. Most young people have poor social skills. We noticed this a few years back at a campground. None of the younger folk acknowledged anyone, and when we nodded or said hello, they seemed uncomfortable. On the flip side, I have met some interesting bloggers from across the world.<br /><br />Life is all about balance.Linda O'Connellhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15982895073903619018noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2252285009517721143.post-53279871005830151542013-06-03T21:27:28.072-04:002013-06-03T21:27:28.072-04:00Hi Terri - Email is so convenient, and I don't...Hi Terri - Email is so convenient, and I don't run the risk of calling at a bad time.<br /><br />Hi Jean - Phone is the next best thing to face-to-face interaction. At least, there's more of a give and take, tone of voice, etc. It adds some dimension to the conversation.<br /><br />Hi Karen - Aww, thanks so much! One of these days we'll meet in person. At least, we're on the same side of the country. :)<br /><br />Hi Carol - Yes, I agree. I'm searching for ways to be more efficient on social media. I'll have some posts on the subject down the road.<br /><br />Blessings,<br />Susan :)Susan J. Reinhardthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07461276857852409546noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2252285009517721143.post-49321617476544602262013-06-03T20:29:42.045-04:002013-06-03T20:29:42.045-04:00When the tendency is to spend hours on the compute...When the tendency is to spend hours on the computer, or try to keep up with everyone's postings on multiple social sites, I think we end up spending way too much time online. Things like e-mail and Facebook can be useful forms of communication, and blogging results in some wonderful cyber friendships. <br /><br />I think it comes down to self-discipline. If we don't find a balance in time online and how we use it, then yes, real life responsibilities and relationships can suffer.Carol Garvinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02182655399708415140noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2252285009517721143.post-42852012818890882192013-06-03T13:42:28.961-04:002013-06-03T13:42:28.961-04:00This is a good question. I prefer real life intera...This is a good question. I prefer real life interaction, but the virtual kind has enabled me to get to know so many great people, so it does have its benefits. You, my friend, would be at the top of that list! :)Karen Langehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18177923284595298347noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2252285009517721143.post-92175888103827450712013-06-03T11:07:58.757-04:002013-06-03T11:07:58.757-04:00I worry about it with kids. The virtual world is s...I worry about it with kids. The virtual world is so much a part of their lives. The internet can be a great tool for meeting like-minded people and making new friends, but it can also blur the real truth. Balance is important.<br /><br />Susan and I have moved from Facebook friends to phone friends. We live half way across the country from one another, but I know we'll meet face-to-face one day.Jean Fischerhttp://jeanfischer.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2252285009517721143.post-1787820348593645642013-06-03T08:09:07.955-04:002013-06-03T08:09:07.955-04:00Good question. I worry that we will get to comfort...Good question. I worry that we will get to comfortable behind a computer and forgo real-life interactions. I know I prefer to email now or text than pick up the phone. But I love meeting others in real life. Terri Tiffanyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07771622379178654235noreply@blogger.com